Dear love,
Today is the day, I fell in love with you for 1440 days. I know it isn't easy for us to reach this far, but it was all worth it. We've been through many amazing transition in our lives together. I witness you, when you are about to enter army, during your army and now, working in full time job. And I'm glad that you've became a part of my journey throughout my poly years and into a working adult world. We've made through a pathway that was full of obstacles.
I remembered during our first few months together, I was so pissed off by your attitude that I've listed 10 things I hate about you and 10 things I want in a guy, that totally you do not have. You've kept that list for months and keep bringing it up, trying to be in the list of 10 things I want in a guy. After reaching through our first year, I realized that it was very silly of me, to dream on about a perfect guy. You've made me learn to see the imperfection perfectly. I began to love you for who you are and for who I am when I'm with you.
In our second year, we began struggling whether to keep this relationship going on and move on. At the point of time, I am so close to my best friends that I felt that do not need a boyfriend. You spent 5 days in camp, i hang out with my friends more than 5 days and we dated only once a week. Nevertheless, despite all those issues, I am truly glad that we did stay together. You've became not only by boyfriend, but my companion, my very best friend and someone I knew I want to spend the rest of my life with.
Even though there was a mere break up during our third year, I am extremely grateful to you that you have never let go. Amazingly, we are able to pull through this together ; fix back the broken heart by reminiscing all the wonderful memories we had together. That incident made our relationship even stronger than before. Believe me, if that incident didn't happen I seriously don't think things will change.
I thank you for the argument we had.
With that, we have better understanding & learn to communicate better.
I thank you for the times you've made me cry.
With that, you've made me a stronger woman. It's not worth to cry over small issue. But to talk and solve it together.
I thank you for the times we had to be apart.
With that, we realized that how much we need each other.
I thank you for the times we stop talking to each other.
With that, we realized that at times relationship needs to be given some space. Once done, I knew we will talk for hours and hours, non-stop.
I thank you for the times we've broke each other hearts.
With that, we mend it so well that it won't be that fragile.
And of course, I thank you for the laughter we had, the wonderful experience and the joy you bring to my life.
Lastly, I thank you for the learning process we had together and yeah, there's still more to learn!
I end this blog with,
......HAPPY 4TH ANNIVERSARY...........
Irwan & Rohani
since 19.11.06
With love,
Rohani
Irwan & Rohani
since 19.11.06
With love,
