Assalamualaikum..
Had a great dinner with the volunteers from other community. As usual, in the youngest one there with the 2nd youngest, Adib. We were surrounded with many working adults and trust me, they are so highly educated! Their english are so chim! We were talking about all those political stuff as there is a talk from one of the PAP candidates. I get so bored that I kept drawing on stop on the particulars paper. Haha!
Oh ya, before the talk, we actually have a game called icebreaker where we need to fill in the box with the signature of the volunteers. There's this one box, it wrote : "Can do hand-stand" none of them can do, so they don't sign. I told them, "Trust me, you can do.. Just trust me okay!"
There's another one, it wrote :"have done bungee-jumping before"
I told them, "A simple jump is called bungee-jumping. Just sign in the box for me please".
Ok lah, im trying to make lame jokes, I don't want get too serious with this working adults. Haha! If I grew up, I prefer to work in the socialising industry- Teaching is one of them! Wee..
I was shocked when my 21 year old friend told me that she's gonna get married by the end of this year with a guy whom she haven't met face to face yet. I don't mind if it is a relationship but it a long-time commitment! I give her a long advice to ensure that she don't make a wrong decision.
One thing, I never dared to promise someone that I will be his life partner, especially when I'm still young and not really in a mature mind. When she said, "he said something that I really wanted to hear". That's in every woman weaknesses. We feel weak when a guy told us something positif what we wanted to hear. Get what I mean?
I told her, "There's no such thing as an ideal partner. He doesn't exist. If a guy is so prefect, it's just too good to be true." I never believe that what I want in a guy will come into reality. For example, I dislike smokers but I will fell for him although he's not my ideal guys. There should be other factors that make me attracted to him. A guy that will make me feel secure is the one who tell the truth although it may be disheartening to hear it. At least, he's not lying.
Back in 2 years ago, I used to have a guy who I find him so prefect for me. He said he's not a smoker and critize those who smoke. Finally, I found out from his close friends that he smoke and he admit it. What a coward! In conclusion, dream guy doesn't exist! It's only for short period, and their "evil" horns will finally popped out from their head soon afterwards. Haha..
It's easy for someone to pretend he likes you. But it's isnt' easy to pretend to hate someone you like. Get it? Sweet words are nice to hear, but how sweet is sweet? Will it turned sour soon- expired? Nice words are words that are sincere although that's not what we wanted to hear. For example, "I dislike you to do this because it will ruin your future." This is sincere although that we hear might not sounds right.
2 people who are able to adapt to the flaws of one another is everlasting than 2 people who expect & demand right things from one another will end up a disaster.
But one thing is for sure, a life partner is the one who can guide me to the right path is the one characteristic I need, not what I want.
Enough of this Rohani, you are not an expert anyway..haha!
Gtg.Nitez!
Wassalam,
Rohani
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